Along with the development of the society rapidly, various social phenomena has been paid more and more attention to.For example, the parents privilege competition is the one of the most attractive topics in China.About this phenomenon, we have to date back to „Ligang Event‟.
So we review this event, Ligang‟s son aimed to meet his girlfriend who studied in HeBei University.On his way, he crushed two girls, one died and one injured.Surprisingly, when he was stopped by security, he didn‟t call 110 instead of claiming that his father was Ligang, and anyone could accuse him if brave.As a result, this sentence caused a great disturbance, all people condemned him and his father Ligang.What came behind was his father was searched in the internet.It was not long before „Litianyi Event‟,and his father was an army general.Therefore, the phenomenon called „parents privilege competition‟ emerged and has become a trend.It‟s said that China entered the „the times of fight father‟.
In fact, back in Chinese history, fight father phenomenon has always existed.In feudal society, the emperor\'s children born by thousands of love and sheltered.The children educated by the future emperor royal standard of education.Then, the children of the emperor\'s relatives are also to be known as Baylor, Prince.Therefore, the phenomenon of parents‟ privilege competition exists in ancient, but people under the rule of the feudal autocratic inequality accustomed to this common phenomenon.Moreover, the children of such people can marry by them were glory.So, the histories of the fight father phenomenon are not getting enough attention in that time, people at the bottom of the feudal autocracy under this phenomenon seems to be rather numb.In modern times, \"rich second generation\" \"official second generation\", \"fight father\" arenot fresh words, and frequent reports online have always reminded us that this phenomenon is all around us.Some young people of poor families who are usually very frugal and work hard to help their dependents overcome impoverished conditions complain that they are currently being judged in society on their family background rather than capability and knowledge when they are out seeking for jobs, or finding a potential partner.They believe the children of rich families, known as the \"second rich generation,\" can always get decent jobs and social status ahead of the poor.And children from poor families think traits like hard-work, creativity and sound academic achievements can never beat having a “good father”.But someone said: “Life is a game.Following rules is the only way you can survive.” This is probably another one of society‟s rules and it‟s called “competition of family background”.
From where I stand, for this phenomenon we should use dialectical eye view to look at.As we know, lots of children could get much experience of the stage from their parents and it could make contributions to their life.We could find many examples ,such asAngelina Jolie, Yanhao and so on.They also have outstanding fathers, but they only rely on their rich resource and succeed on his own.However, not everyone who has a powerful family has a positive influence on others and society.Nowadays , lots of young people who have a powerful parent and family play the gangster rely on the rights of their parents.For example, according to media reports, Jaycee Chan whose dad is Jackie Chan who is a famous Kung Fu Star in movie world and has a great influence on movie fans of all the world was caught a drug and causes enormous harms.This negative example has a bad effect on Teenagers who appreciate his movie.Experts say the origin of the concept of speculation parents privilege competition revealed in many illegal phenomenon, but also with the more and more exposed gradually been public concern and discuion.This parents privilege competition phenomenon in front of the law, led directly to the public the real perceptions of inequality and insecurity.As for me ,my parents told me when I was a kid that I only rely on myself to create colorful feature because they couldn‟t give me everything.\"Fight father game\", it is not a game, but refers to today\'s youth in school, looking for work, buying a house and other aspects of competition which did not rely on their ability instead of fighting their parents.This society is full of games, fighting father game is one of the rules of social games, but also a person\'s resources.Do not have to complain about their family background, if you think you are now to participate in this game is not enough grid, then try to let your son later to participate in the game.Poor second generation without background basis, then in their own proce will have to establish a social network, the accumulation of this wealth, if not to accumulate, then your family can only watch the game from generation to generation, and you do next in a poor Paenger.So, why not try to let your son be proud of you.
