幸福，是用来感觉的，而不是用来比较的。生活，是用来经营的，而不是用来计较的。感情，是用来维系的，而不是用来考验的。爱人，是用来疼爱的，而不是用来伤害的。金钱，是用来付出的，而不是用来衡量的。谎言，是用来击破的，而不是用来粉饰的。信任，是用来沉淀的，而不是用来挑战的。
Happine is to be felt, not to be compared; life is to be lived, not to be bargained; love is to tie, not to test;
sweetheart is to be loved, not to be hurt; money is to pay, not to measure; lie is to be disclosed, not to glo; trust is to deposit, not to be challenged.公安都用淘宝体：“亲，告别日日逃，分分慌，秒秒惊的痛苦吧，赶紧预订喔！”我来给你译一个：
Dear, Say goodbye to the pain of fleeing day by day, panic minute by minute, alarm second by second! Please! Please! Please![哈哈] 每个人的心里，有多么长的一个清单，这些清单里写着多少美好的事，可是，它们总是被推迟，被搁置，在时间的阁楼上腐烂。为什么勇气的问题总是被误以为是时间的问题，而那些沉重、抑郁的、不得已的，总是被叫做生活本身。（刘瑜）
In every heart hides a long list with so many beautiful things to fulfill, which are then postponed, suspended, rotten in the attic of time.What is actually a matter of courage is labelled as a matter of time but the ponderous,the depreing,the unfulfillable as life itself.黑夜给了我黑色的眼睛，我却用它寻找光明。（顾城）
Black night endows me with black eyes, / which yet empowers me to seek light.不是每一次努力都会有收获，但是，每一次收获都必须努力，这是一个不公平的不可逆转的命题。（张爱玲） It is an unfair yet irreversible truth that not every effort is rewarded yet every reward requires effort.幸福四要素（罗素）：健康的身体、避免陷入贫困的收入、愉快的人际关系、成功的工作。Four ingredients of happine (Bertrand Ruell) : the first is health; the second, sufficient means to keep you from want; third, happy personal relations; and fourth, succeful work.
我将在茫茫人海中寻访我唯一之灵魂伴侣。得之，我幸；不得，我命。(徐志摩) I will be in constant search for my soulmate in the endle sea of crowd.Fortune favors me if I could find her and destiny plays its part if I couldn\'t.
最好不相见，免我常相恋。最好不相知，免我常相思。（仓央嘉措）It is best not to see,then there is no chance to fall in love; it is best not to become intimate,then I will not be forlorn when I mi.
爱情的根本愿望是：在陌生的人山人海中寻找一种自由的盟约。（史铁生《务虚笔记》） The fundamental desire within love is to seek a oath of alliance for liberty in a sea of strangers.
所谓父母，就是那不断对着背影既欣喜又悲伤，想追回拥抱又不敢声张的人。(龙应台) Parents are those who rejoice in sorrow at the sight of the child\'s back, who yearn to call him back for a hug yet restrain themselves from doing it.老头子恋爱听说像老房子着了火，烧起来没有救的。（钱钟书《围城》）
An old man\'s love was said to be like an old house set ablaze.Once it started burning, there was no saving it.死生契阔，与子成说。执子之手，与子偕老。
Alive or dead, far or near, I make my word to you: I\'ll hold your hand till together we grow old.) 我欲与君相知, 长命无绝衰。山无陵, 江水为竭, 冬雷震震, 夏雨雪, 天地合, 乃敢与君绝。I shall love you to the end of time!Till mountains crumble,streams run dry,thunder rumbles in winter,snow falls in summer,and the earth mingles with the sky--not till then will I cease to love you!
