Peace of mind comes from not wanting to change others, but by simply accepting them
as they are.
想要改变他人不能带来心灵的平静，接受他们才能。
Gerald G.Jampolsky
杰拉德·詹波斯基
Have you really felt annoyed by some irritating people?I suppose the common answer is \"yes\".I don\'t think that would take us a problem anymore by learning and understanding this sentence.I\'m really delighted to see this beautiful sentence.You don\'t have to get cro with those people as long as you put this sentence into practice.
We can\'t deny that those people really disturbed our life.But what should we do to deal with them? To kill them? To butter up them? It\'s a trend for us to find quick fixes in the fast developing society.However it really calls for guts and capability to deal with those people.If you\'re not crazy and brave enough, you can\'t kill them, because it\'s illegal, right? In fact , this problem only concerns you and him.Which aspect should we care more about? You, yourself.What really matters is not those irritating people themselves, but how you feel about them.It is therefore important to accept them as they are and don\'t take too much into your mind.Be kind and polite to them and try to keep the stability.
The sad truth is that someone doesn\'t respect your nice gesture and goes so far.In that case, you can try to avoid having conflicts with them.What if you have nowhere to hide from those people, such as clamates or colleagues? And you may still feel angry with them, even when you come back home because it is part of your memory and hard to be erased, right? You might feel a sense of lo in this situation.Here is my advice to you: you really need to play tough.I mean, if you\'re tough, it immediately reduces your opponent\'s expectation ,and in this competitive world, guys will respect you for not being a soft touch.Do look tough , or they would
play the aggreive role.And of course you\'re going to lose the battle in the end.
You can really take my word for it.I mean, you can just count on me.I dare say, in no time, you would feel peaceful and relax , if you followed the rules above.As the proverb goes: take it , if you cannot change it.
