偏见是人的劣根性——读《傲慢与偏见》有感
看完《傲慢与偏见》有种意犹未尽的感觉，书中的人物似乎活在我的心里，又似乎都走出来出现在我身边，而他们身上的缺点也逐一在周围人中体现出来。随着书的结尾，书中人物都有个自的结局，但又似乎充满着变数，不管怎么样，对我来说喜欢的依然喜欢，厌恶的依然厌恶。
整本书的故事从班纳特一家说起，最终又以他们一家的生活概况为结局，中间描述了青年男女之间的情感纠葛，并以周围人的言论、态度从侧面折射出了当时的社会形态——即人与人之间无时无刻都存在的偏见，以及官宦世家居上位的傲慢。故事的结局可以说是美好的，但是中间的过程却显得极为坎坷，纵观全文几乎每个人都对其他人有着偏见，而正是因为这一点，使得故事一波三折。
猜疑的人不会有任何损失，而被猜疑的人却要蒙受不白之冤，更不能理解为何自己会受到不平待遇。达西的设定似乎就是这样一个角色，因为从小养成的性格是人感到傲慢，于是一传十十传百，众人纷纷人云亦云，恨不能把他贬低的更多些。却没有一个人愿意去了解这些传言真实性，放下自己的偏见。就连一向嫉恶如仇敢作敢当的伊丽莎白也因达西没邀请她共舞而对达西产生厌恶，并对于流言深以为然。在相当长的一段时间里，伊丽莎白怀着偏见与达西交流。怀着一颗恶意的心与人交流，自然难以取得什么好的结果。同样的，因为达西对吉英的偏见，使他帮助彬格莱做出错误的决定，以致在长达一年的时间里，吉英与彬格莱的爱情处于几近夭折的状态。就我个人而言，我一向认为自己还算是个公道的人，看到书中的有些描写不禁觉得有些夸张，但那当我看完全书再细想时发现，自己不止一次的对达西产生了猜忌和厌恶，可当发现自己的错误时，也只是对达西的误解稍有惋惜，并未有何自责。
偏见产生于自己的主观，或是亲近之人的态度。有些人，很容易对人或事产生偏见，因为自己的主观，更明确地说是因为唯心主义。这些人很愿意以自己的想法为基础去评价事物，并不吝以恶意去揣度。正如书中的彬格莱小姐，从来都是以恶意去看待伊丽莎白甚至吉英。归根结底，还是不愿去躬亲查明事物的原因，亦不在乎这种偏见会有何种结果——与自己无关自然好，与自己有利益那就更好了。而另一种人，则往往因为身边亲近之人的言论或态度，使得自己不自觉间便被偏见蒙蔽了眼。就如彬格莱先生，过度相信达西的意见，对于自己的爱情产生怀疑，几乎错失姻缘。伊丽莎白也是一样，因为自己更亲近韦翰，故而更愿意相信韦翰，对于达西的成见愈加深刻。
书中时时刻刻都体现出这些人的情绪，并逐步的激化矛盾，让读者迫不得已的选择站位继而恍然大悟般的意识到，自己竟然也被染上了偏见的情绪。不过究竟是书让人染上这些情绪，还是情绪本身就存在，只是书让你更真实的表现出来，就只能见仁见智了。
Prejudice is the worst evil of man – my thoughts on \"Pride and Prejudice\" After reading \"Pride and Prejudice \", I have a kind of boundle feeling.The characters in the book seem to live in my heart, and they all seem to come out to be by my side.Moreover, shortcomings of them one by one were reflected by people around me.With the end of the book, the characters in the book each have a different ending, which also seems full of variables; however, I still like what attract me and dislike those disgust me.The whole book begins with the story of the Bennets and also ends with the family life of the Bennets, and in the middle the whole book describes the emotional entanglements between the young men and women.Besides, the remarks and the attitudes of the people around the Bennets, also from one side reflects the social form of that time - the prejudice that exists at all times between people, and the arrogance of the upper stratum.The end of the story is really satisfactory, but the proce is extremely bumpy.Throughout the text, almost everyone has a bias to others precisely because of which, the story twists and turn.For people who have suspicions, there will not be any lo whereas those who were suspected have to live in the shadows and can not understand why they get uneven treatment.Darcy seems to be such a role because the character from childhood is brought up to feel arrogant that lots of people are parroting, wishing they could have put more demeaning on him.But no one is willing to put aside their own prejudices and understand the authenticity of these rumors.Even Elizabeth who detests unfair things, becomes to hate Darcy and thinks the rumor is naturally true just because Darcy doesn’t invite her to dance.For a long period of time, Elizabeth with prejudice communicates with Darcy.At the same time, because of prejudice, Darcy helps Bingley make the wrong decision to not marry Jane’s elder sister, resulting in the love of Jane and Bingley almost died.Naturally, nothing good result comes between Darcy and Elizabeth but mutual disgust and more prejudices.As far as I am concerned, I always think that I am a reasonable person, but seeing some descriptions of the book I can not help but feel some exaggeration.However when I finish the whole book I find that I, more than once, produced suspicion and disgust to Darcy.Things become different when I find out that Darcy was misunderstood and I feel regret for my own prejudice.Prejudice comes from people’s subjections, or is close to the attitudes of people.Some people are ready to have a prejudice against people or things because of their own subjection, or more specifically, because of idealism.These people are willing to evaluate things with their own idea to be the foundation.For example, Mi Bingley never fails to be malicious to Elizabeth, even Jean.In the final analysis, she just doesn\'t want to find the truth with her own eyes, or she doesn\'t care about what kind of result this prejudice will have –if it has nothing to do with herself, it’s surely good, and if it can bring her interests, it’s much better.And the other kind of man is too stupid to believe people’s speech or attitude as Mr.Bingley, exceively believing Darcy\'s opinion.For his own suspicions, he almost mied his true love.Elizabeth is the same, she is more willing to be with Wickham, and becomes more and more hateful to Darcy.The book embodies the person\'s moods all the time and gradually produces acute contradictions, making readers have to chose a position and then take a tumble of consciousne to the fact that he should also be infected with prejudice emotions.But whether the book makes a person infected with these emotions, or emotional itself exists and only books make your more true expreion comes out, brings various opinions of different readers.
