Dear daughter,
It is said that parents are the earliest and the most influential teachers in one’s life.Therefore, I have taken it my responsibility to give you the best education since you were born.However, as I was putting all efforts to raise you, I had no idea that my strict teaching method would lead to the misunderstanding between us.I really hope that you can get to understand me through my following words.
Most importantly, succe only comes after hardworking, which you may have heard millions of times, but it is an everlasting truth.With the western-style education exerting much influence on the chinese parents nowadays, people seem to neglect the traditional chinese method of raising children.Western parents praise their children whether they succeed or not in order to encourage them, which in a way is spoiling them.Meanwhile,tiger parents place high expectation on their children and set up higher rules for them.On the one hand, this may be stre to you.On the other hand, when this kind of stre turns out to be motivation, it will form a souce of unbelivable power that keeps you achieving efforts.Like what the philosopher Aristtle said ‘The roots of education are bitter, but the fruit is sweet’.
What is more, strict rules can avoid you from making regrettful mistakes.Like all the other kids, you often claim that you have the freedom to choose what you like to do.However, what you don’t know is that you are too young to judge what is the right thing for you to do.Most of your decisions are made by your paion without rational thinking.You need someone to give the right direction for you to go otherwise you may feel regret when you look back.
Last but not least, all I did for you is out of my love for you and my wish that you can lead a happy life when you grow up.You may not willingly accept my tiger parenting today, but someday in the future, you will understand.
Love for you forever!
Your tiger mother
