LOVE and MARRIAGE Hello everybody, maybe it is too early for us to talk about marriage, but we still have the right to put up our opinions about love and marriage.
People often say that there is no reason to love someone，but I want to ask all of you a question: except the love of parents for child, everyone here, who can love a person for nothing? Or are you willing to love someone even if you will get nothing? Of cause you won’t.So the love is conditioned，maybe you don’t want to get anything from the person you love, but you desire his or her love, do you think so? So this is the premise of love.So all of us are being loved purposefully by others and loving others purposefully.
Since there is no or le love without purpose, we can’t expect there will be anyone to love us for nothing.But we can make ourselves poeion the advantages if we want to be loved by the other or if we want to love others better.And also at the same time, if you love someone, just forget some of your purpose.Good love likes the feeling of walking in graland; it makes your world so wild and so bright.Bad love like a well, it can only make your world more and narrower.Good love is that you can see the world through someone; bad love is that you will mi the world for one person.
The true love is that no matter how much difference you have and no matter how many tempt around you and no matter how the world outside changes, you just keep going with the person you love and you will never think of breaking up with each other and you will become braver and stronger with him or her.Have you ever experienced one’s promising and did the promise come true? There are so many things we thought we would love them forever, but the forever promise was made at the time when you have the strongest hope to hold them.So we should learn to take promise as a little part of love.If you get it or if it come true, you will be happy, and if you lost it or if it failed, you will be sad and then you will learn something from it, just don’t try to ask the reason why the promise did broken.
So maybe marriage is the best kind of form of promise for women, but most of men think that marriage is the tomb of love and marriage has no relationship with love , but in my opinion, if there is no marriage, love is just a lonely and wandering ghost，and it has no place to burry itself.Love is the premise of marriage and marriage is the sublimate of love.For most of people, love is sweet and romantic, but marriage is realistic.According to statistics, the divorce rate in China is keep rising nowadays, the affection between husband and wife is waking and going bad in gradually, the family broken up and left all pains and bad influences to children, perhaps this is a social phenomenon, we can’t realize it or change it.
In fact, marriage is something that you find someone who will never leave you alone and you will company each other to through the rest of life, it’s the best happine in this world.I don’t know why some people just take marriage as a burden or treat it as a joke.Marriage is holy and it matters the happine of two people, you should make sure that the one is whom you want in the vast world at the second you are ready to build a family with.
In my growing years, I have learned from my parents that their love had being washed by time and common life all the time, but it had never vanished.On contrary, they care more about each other in health and mood and in many other aspects.Maybe they had complained, but they had never suspected their marriage and their own choices, they had never suspected their love.Their marriage had become not only something about moral and duty but also a kind of deepest
relationship and love.
So I think that marriage needs to be plowing and weeding, we should learn to understand, respect, and cherish.If your marriage will not defeated by the reality, then your love will last forever and when both of you become old hand in hand, you will find that all the hardships and frustrations are sweet and romantic.Thank you!
