Friendship
Everyone in this world lives a social life ,and has all kinds
of
relationships,
among
these relationships ,friendship is the most common and also most pure one.Then what is friendship? When come to this iue, I’d like to talk about friend first .A friend is someone you’d like to spend time with ,have fun with ,share happine and sadne with and speak heart to heart with .A friend is someone who can always understands you, supports you, contents you ,who will always be there for you when you are down.Just like the song goes: “ I will be there for you”.Then how to build a real friendship with others? Firstly, we have to like social life , adapt to social life,and take part in a lots of activities , this allows us to have the chances of making new friends.Secondly, we have to be active.Let me put it in this way : be active is just like you are the host wherever you are , you will greet others warmly ,you will talk to others actively ,you can even serve others kindly .and please remember this , while you are doing this , do it with your heart, with your sincerity, only in this will you gain people’s heart.Thirdly, choose your friend carefully.Even though I mentioned above that we should be active ,but I didn’t suggest you become friends with everyone you meet .on one hand ,that’s impoible to be friends with everyone ,on the other hand, we don’t have to either, because friends are all alike , they often have something in common.Moreover, we can sometimes make the wrong friendship with others.There are all kinds of people in this world ,good guys ,bad guys ,and you cannot tell only by their appearance . you have to decide who is worth you paying attention to ,and opening your heart for.When you have built a friendship , then how to maintain you relationship ? here are some tips for all of us: Firstly , remember to keep in touch with each other.This is the best way to maintain friendships.Just as the old song goes: “should auld acquaintance be forgot ,and never brought to mind……?” we should contact our old friend more often , for example ,send a Email ,drop a line , give a call or so ,anyway ,show your care from time to time .Secondly ,be well prepared to help your friends when they need you .because that’s a friend’s duty.We should support our friends in our way.Thirdly ,when we need help , feel free to ask for help, don’t always reject others help.because our friends can feel happy when they are giving.
At last ,let me summarize my main points: Be active to build friendships and be active to maintain friendships with sincerity, and do enjoy your good friendship!
