奥普拉哈佛毕业典礼演讲：人生唯一目标就是做真实的自己 oh my goodne! im at haaaaaarvard! thats how oprah winfrey began her speech at harvard university graduation ceremony—in her spirited, signature way.winfrey also received an honorary doctor of law degree from the university before taking to the podium. 温弗瑞演讲中4条最励志的语录
谈失败的好处 there is no such thing as failure.failure is just life trying to move us in another direction. 世间并不存在“失败”，那不过是生活想让我们换个方向走走罢了。 learn from every mistake, because every experience, particularly your mistakes, are there to teach you and force you into being more who you are.要从错误中吸取教训，因为你的每一次经历、尤其是你犯下的错误，都将帮助你、推动你更好地做自己。
2.on her own biggest personal failure. 谈自身最大的失败
我突然想到某首古老赞美诗中的一句话：“困难只是暂时的”，我遇到的麻烦同样会有结束的一天。然后我想，我会将这一页翻过去，我会好起来的。
谈职业生涯所做访谈的共同性 beyonce in all her beyonce-ne ...they all want to know: was that okay? did you hear me? did you see me? did what i said mean anything to you? 我发现，我所有的访谈有一个共同性，那就是人人都希望自己被认可、被理解。 they all want to know: was that okay? did you hear me? did you see me? did what i said mean anything to you? 我的采访对象都想知道：“我的表现ok吗？你听到我看到我吗？我说的话对你有价值吗？”
4.on the key to succe and happine. 谈成功和快乐的关键 you will find true succe and happine if you have only one goal.there really is only one, and that is this: to fulfill the highest, most truthful expreion of yourself as a human being. 如果你只认准一个目标，那你就能获得真正的成功和快乐。人生确实只有一个目标，那就是：最大程度地、最真实地展现自己。
“不要问自己世界需要什么，问问是什么让你精神抖擞地活着，然后就去做，因为世界所需要的就是一个个朝气蓬勃的人。”篇2：奥普拉哈佛毕业典礼演讲
奥普拉哈佛毕业典礼演讲：人生唯一目标就是做真实的自己 oprah winfrey: oh my goodne! im at harvard! wow! to president faust, my fellow honorands, carl that was so beautiful, thank you so much, and james rothenberg, stephanie wilson, harvard faculty with a special bow to my friend dr.henry lewis gates. oprah winfrey: all of you alumni with a special bow to the cla of 88, your hundred fifteen million dollars. oprah winfrey: and to you, members of the harvard cla of 2013! hello! oprah winfrey: and we understand that most americans believe in a clear path to citizenship for the 12,000,000 undocumented immigrants who reside in this country because its poible to both enforce our篇3：奥普拉2013年哈佛大学毕业演讲(英文版) oh my goodne! im at harvard! wow! to president faust, my fellow honorands, carl that was so beautiful, thank you so much, and james rothenberg, stephanie wilson, harvard faculty with a special bow to my friend dr.henry lewis gates. all of you alumni with a special bow to the cla of 88, your hundred fifteen million dollars. and to you, members of the harvard cla of 2013! hello! decided as you will at some point, that it was time to recalculate, find new territory, break new ground.so i ended the show and launched own, the oprah winfrey network.the initials just worked out for me.so one year later after launching own nearly every media outlet had proclaimed that my new venture was a flop.not just a flop but a big bold flop they call it.i can still remember the day i opened up usa today and read the headline oprah, not quite standing on her own.i mean really, usa today? now thats the nice newspaper! it really was this time last year the worst period in my profeional life.i was streed and i was frustrated and quite frankly i was actually i was embarraed. and it was all because i wanted to do it by the time i got to speak to you all so thank you so much.you dont know what motivation you were for me, thank you.im even where is he or she? bring them in.its an impreive calling card that can lead to even and so what i did was i simply asked our viewers do what you can wherever you are, from wherever you sit in life.give me your time or your talent your money if you have it.and they did.extend yourself in kindne to other human beings wherever you can.and together we built 55 schools in 12 different countries and restored nearly 300 homes that were devastated by hurricanes rita and katrina. so the angel network i have been on the air for a long time, but it was the angel network that actually focused my internal g.p.s.it helped me to decide that i wasnt going to just be on tv every day but that the goal of my shows, added this, you simply cannot demonize or vilify someone who doesnt agree with you, because the minute you do that, your discuion is over.and we cannot do that any longer.the problem is too enormous.there has to be some way that this darkne can be banished with light.in our political system and in the media we often see the reflection of a country that is polarized, that is paralyzed and is self-interested.and yet, i know you know the truth.we all know that we are better than the cynicism and the peimism that is regurgitated throughout washington and the 24-hour cable news cycle.not my channel, by the way.we understand that the vast majority of people in this and we understand.i know you do because you went to harvard.there are people from both parties and no party believe that indigent mothers and families should have acce to healthy food and a roof over their heads and a strong public education because here in the richest nation on earth we can afford a basic level of security and opportunity.so the question is what are we going to do about it? really what are you going to do about it? maybe you agree with these beliefs.maybe you dont.maybe you care about these iues and maybe there are other challenges that you, cla of 2013, are paionate about.maybe you want to make a difference by serving in government.maybe you want to launch your own television show.or maybe you simply want to collect some change.your parents would appreciate that about now.the point is your generation is charged with this task of breaking through what the body politic has thus far made impervious to change.each of you has been bleed with this enormous opportunity of attending this prestigious school.you now have a chance to better your life, the lives of your neighbors and also the life of our country.when you do that let me tell you what i know for sure.thats when your story gets really good.maya angelou always says when you learn, teach.when you get, give.that my friends is what gives your story purpose and meaning.so you all have the power in your own way to develop your own angel network and in doing so your cla will be armed with more tools of influence and empowerment than any other generation in history.i did it in an analog world.i was bleed with a platform that at its height reached nearly 20,000,000 viewers a day.now here in a world of twitter and facebook and youtube and tumbler, you can reach billions in just seconds.youre the generation that rejected predictions about your detachment and your disengagement by showing up to vote in record numbers in 2008.and when the pundits said they said they talked about you, they said youd be too disappointed, youd be too dejected to repeat that same kind of turnout in 2012 election and you proved them wrong by showing up in even greater numbers.thats who you are. this generation your generation i know has developed a finely honed radar for b.s.can you say b.s.at harvard? the spin and phonine and artificial nastine that saturates so much of our national debate.i know you all understand better than most that real progre requires authentic- an authentic way of being, honesty, and above all that youll have the courage to look them in the eye and hear their point of view and help make sure that the speed and distance and anonymity of our world doesnt cause us to lose our ability to stand in somebody elses shoes and recognize all that we share as a people.this is imperative for you as an individual and for our succe as a nation.there has to be some way that this darkne can be banished with light, says the man whose little boy was maacred on just an ordinary friday in december.so whether you call it soul or spirit or higher self, intelligence, there is i know this, there is a light inside each of you all of us that illuminates your very human beingne if you let it.and as a young girl from rural miiippi i learned long ago that being myself was much easier than pretending to be barbara walters.although when i first started because i had barbara in my head i would try to sit like barbara, talk like barbara, move like barbara and then one night i was on the news reading the news and i called canada can-a-da, and that was the end of me being barbara.i cracked myself up on tv.couldnt stop laughing and my real personality came through and i figured out oh gee, i can be a much better oprah than i could be a pretend barbara. 美国十大毕业典礼励志演讲 5月，是美国大学举行毕业典礼的季节。按照惯例，各界名流都会受邀到各大名校去做煽动人心的励志演讲。通过这些演讲，我们或许能够窥见美国人是如何激励他们的年轻一代的。根据某网站的评选，以下是近年美国最有影响的十大毕业典礼演讲： 1.史蒂芬·乔布斯（steve jobs） 苹果电脑ceo 2006年，斯坦福大学
记着你总会死去，是我知道的防止患得患失的最佳办法。赤条条来去无牵挂，还有什么理由不随你的心。
你的时间是有限的，因此不要把时间花在过别人的生活上。不要被教条所困——让自己的生活成为他人想法的结果。不要让他人的意见淹没了你自己内心的声音。最重要的是，要有勇气跟随你的本心与直觉。它们好歹已经知道你真正想让自己成为什么。其他的，都是次要的。
保持饥饿。保持愚蠢。
2.杰瑞·朱克（jerry zucker） 导演、电影制片人 2003年，威斯康辛大学
如果你一生都在睡觉，你的梦想是否实现就无关紧要了。
问你自己一个问题：如果我不是必须做得完美，那我还努力什么呢？
没有人会像你自己那样对自己的失败那么在意。你是唯一沉湎于你自己的重要性的人。对于其他所有人来说，你只是雷达荧光屏上的一个光点。所以，只管前行吧。 3.马克·刘易斯（mark lewis） 教授、临床心理学家 2000年，德克萨斯大学（奥斯汀） 有时候你会干得很漂亮，有时候你会失败。但二者都不是成功的量度。成功的量度是你自己对你的所为怎么看。让我换一句话说：让自己幸福的办法是喜欢你自己，喜欢你自己的办法是只做让你自己感到骄傲的事情。
有一个老的笑话，不是很好笑，它是这么说的：“无论你去到哪里，你总是你。”这是真的。你一生中跟你在一起最多的人是你自己，如果你不喜欢你自己，那你就会总是跟你不喜欢的人在一起。
4.大卫·福斯特·华莱士（david foster wallace） 小说家 2005年，肯尼恩学院
有两条小鱼在一起游泳，一天他们碰巧遇到了一条老鱼。老鱼向他们点头，并说：“早上好，孩子们。水怎么样？”这两条小鱼
继续往前游，其中一条小鱼实在忍不住了，问另一条小鱼：“水是什么东西？”
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简单的意识，对我们生活中如此真实、如此必不可少、无处不在、无时不在的事物的意识，需要我们一遍一遍地提醒自己： “这是水。”
“这是水。”
在一天又一天的成人世界中做到这点，保持意识清醒而鲜活，是不可想象地难。 5.约翰·沃尔什（john walsh） 作家和艺术历史学家 2000年，惠顿神学院
一次做一件事情。给你每一次经历全部的注意力。努力抵抗被别的声色之物和其他想法、任务分心。一旦分心了，引导你的内心重新回到你做的事情上。
我不是在反对学习多个学科的众多知识，鉴赏力真的很有用。我所警告的是分心与干扰，无论是你主动招惹的，还是让它发生的，就像我一生所做的那样。在棒球场上，得分高的击球员对此有更深体会：他们谈的是“专注”，他们把它看得跟力量一样重要。 在心理学家的描述中，高技能的攀岩者、网球运动员、钢琴家已经超越了专注，达到了他们所称的经验之“流”，那是一种跟岩石、网球或音乐融为一体的感觉，“我vs.它”已然消失，跟任务合二为一，给人以更高水平的愉悦体验，而不仅仅是成功地完成了任务。我有这种体验，虽然很少，但来得还不算迟，或许你也有这种体验。这是最高形式的快乐。如果你一次专注于做一件事情，你就会有更多这样的体验。 6.迈克尔·奥斯兰（michael uslan） 电影制片人 2006年，印第安纳大学
你必须相信你自己和你的工作。当我们第一部电影《蝙蝠侠》创下史无前例的票房纪录时，我接到了艺术家联合会会长的电话，他在数年之前曾跟我谈过，他说我疯了。如今他说，“迈克尔，我给你打电话不只是祝贺蝙蝠侠的成功，我说过你是一位梦想家。”你看，关键在这里，当他们说你有多差，你的想法有多糟的时候，不要信他们的话，同时，当他们告诉你你有多么了不起，你的想法多美妙时，也不要相信他们。你就只相信你自己，你会做好的。还有，是的，不要忘记推销你自己和你的想法。左右大脑你都得用。
你的挫败感阈值一定得高。想想那些被好莱坞每一家制片厂拒绝的人。你必须去敲一扇扇的门，直到指节流血。大门会在你面
前砰然关上，你必须重振旗鼓，弹去身上的灰尘，再敲下一扇门。这是实现你人生目标的唯一办法。
7.大卫·l·卡尔霍恩（david l.calhoun） 商人 2005年，弗吉尼亚理工大学
我在ge为一个名叫杰克·韦尔奇的家伙工作了20年。他既是一位伟大的领导者，也是一位伟大的导师。如果我必须找出这么多年他对我说的最慷慨激昂的主题，那就是自信。自信是最重要的，它是成功必不可少的，是所有在其他方面大相径庭的伟大领导者的共同特征。
如何获得自信？培养你内心的自信的秘密是什么？
首先，你必须下决心每天都通过你的工作和家庭生活去获得智力、道德、技术与专业上的增进。你需要每天问自己：我是在加速还是在后退？我还在学习吗？我是在重复做同样的事情或就像奥蒂斯·瑞汀所说的那样“坐在海湾的码头上，看潮起潮落”？ 对学习的渴望是不受年龄限制的。
培养自信的另一个重要途径是寻找最难的工作，最枯燥的科学、工程或管理的挑战。 8.厄尔·巴肯（earl bakken） 商人 2004年，夏威夷大学篇5：奥普拉演讲
奥普拉哈佛大学2013年毕业典礼演讲
当地时间5月31日，脱口秀女王奥普拉·温弗瑞（oprah winfrey） 在哈佛的毕业典礼上为毕业生们献上了一场精彩励志演讲。there is no such thing as failure.failure is just life trying to move us in another direction. oh my goodne! im at haaaaaarvard! thats how oprah winfrey began her speech at harvard university graduation ceremony—in her spirited, signature way.winfrey also received an honorary doctor of law degree from the university before taking to the podium。“omg，我竟然在哈??佛！”奥普拉·温弗瑞以这样富有 four most inspiring quotes from winfreys speech温弗瑞演讲中4条最励志的语录 there is no such thing as failure.failure is just life trying to move us in another direction。世间并不存在“失败”，那不过是生活想让我们换条道走走罢了。 learn from every mistake, because every experience, particularly your mistakes, are there to teach you and force you into being more who you are。要从错误中吸取教训，因为你的每一次经历、尤其是你犯下的错误，都将帮助你、推动你更好地做自己。 2.on her own biggest personal failure。谈自身最大的失败 then the words came to me, trouble dont last always, from an old hymn.this too shall pa.and i thought, i am going to turn this thing around and i will be better for it。我突然想到某首古老赞美诗中的一句话：“困难只是暂时的”，我遇到的麻烦同样会有结束的一天。然后我想，我会将这一页翻过去，我会好起来的。 they all want to know: was that okay? did you hear me? did you see me? did what i said mean anything to you?我的采访对象都想知道：“我的表现ok吗？你听到我看到我吗？我说的话对你有价值吗？” 4.on the key to succe and happine。谈成功和快乐的关键 you will find true succe and happine if you have only one goal.there really is only one, and that is this: to fulfill the highest, most truthful expreion of yourself as a human being.you want to max out your humanity by using your energy to lift yourself up, your family, and the people you will find true succe and happine if you have only one goal.there really is only one, and that is this: to fulfill the highest, most truthful expreion of yourself as a human being。如果你只认准一个目标，那你就能获得真正的成功和快乐。人生确实只有一个目标，那就是：最大程度地、最真实地展现自己。
