杨绛钱钟书——平凡的爱情，伟大的婚姻
钱锺书在《围城》中将婚姻比作围城，城外的人想进来，城里的人想出去。可他和杨绛却是例外，有一次，杨绛读到英国传记作家概括的最理想的婚姻：“我见到她之前，从未想到要结婚；我娶了她几十年，从未后悔娶她；也未想过要娶别的女人。”
她把这段话念给钱锺书听，钱当即表示：“我和他一样。”杨绛答：“我也一样。”
关于爱情，这是最朴素却又最动人的表白。
在长达六十多年的婚姻里，他们除了生活上相濡以沫，更有着精神上的相知相契。他们志趣相投，性情相投，进退一致。他们是夫妻，也是最好的朋友。
Yang Jiang, Qian Zhongshu - ordinary love, great marriage Qian Zhongshu in the \"Fortre Besieged\" will be compared to the siege of the city, the city people want to come in, the city people want to go out.He and Yang Jiang are the exceptions, on one occasion, Yang Jiang read British biographer summarized the ideal marriage: \"before I met her, never thought of getting married; I married her for decades, never regret to marry her; nor wanted to marry another woman.\" She read these words to Qian Zhongshu, the money immediately said: \"I like him.\" Yang Jiangda: \"me too.\".\" About love, this is the most simple and most touching expreion.In more than and 60 years of marriage, in addition to their life on each other, more in the spirit of understanding and agreement.They are congenial, congenial and consistent.They are husband and wife and best friend.
