Put yourself in others’ shoes
Ladies and gentlemen: It’s my honor to stand here to give you a speech.And I’ll ask you some questions at the beginning.Have you ever argued with your friends or you parents? Why did you argue with them at that time? Think about it, and then keep your answer in your mind.Let’s imagine.One day, when you go past your best friends’ seat, you accidentally push his glaes to the ground, which are crashed immediately.It is very common but he starts shouting at you and even hit you! What will you do at the moment? Will you get angry or hit back or just say,”Have you got mad?” Now the situation is serious, what you choose to do controlls what will happen next.If you behave as above, you’ll probably get into a fight and your friendship might not exist forever.Only do something wisely can you solve it.Now my suggestion turns out: put yourself in others’ shoes.Think why he reacts violently, say ”sorry” instantly and expre your care politely.If he still shouts at you, you should skip and go back when he is not angry anymore.Then ask him why.As you can see, if you put yourself in others’ shoes, you will resolve conflicts easily.I can promise that if you listen to me carefully just now, you will have the key to settle every problem between friends.After all staying in a good friendship like nothing has happened is the best solution.So when you have problem dealing with others, why don’t you just put yourself in others’ shoes?
