现实生活中，某些人似乎有这样的毛病，总是喜欢批评别人，而不喜欢被人批评，更不喜欢自我批评。其实，自我批评会给自己带来很多好处，既能取得别人的监督和帮助，能够得到别人的谅解，最终赢得别人的认同和信任。
有一个部门经理，因工作上的失误，使整个部门受累。在一次会议上，他主动自我批评，指出自己的缺点和欠妥之处，并希望得到同事们的支持等。原先那些对他有成见的下属听了他的自我批评后，觉得他诚实可信，在他手下工作值得，并且竭尽全力帮他。公开进行自我批评，人皆仰之，不是失面子的事，而是挣面子的事。
每个人都有自己的缺陷和不足，在改正的同时，也要看到在整个集体中，大家是可以互补，可以整合资源的。
自我批评必须了解全面认识自己的缺点与不足.可分为自我总结和反省。古代就有“吾一日三省吾身”的思想，而我经过自己总结也找到自己的优缺和不足。只有经常地开展批评和自我批评，虚心地接受批评才能不断地改造自我，提高自我，完善自我。
一、自我批评的重要性：
1、能够时刻反省自己，找出自己的不足和缺点，不断完善自己；
2、防止问题扩大，在问题还小的时候将其解决，以免造成更大的危害。
三、怎样开展自我批评：
1、学会一日一省吾身，在睡觉的时候想一想我今天都做了那些事情，那些是应该的，哪些是不应该的，自身还存在哪些缺点和不足，努力在第二天做得更好；
2、学会心理换位，与他人产生了矛盾之后，应多从自身找毛病，多自我批评；同时及时找到对方主动道歉，和好如初；
3、主动找朋友,同事或同学接受教育；
4、在开展自我批评的时候，要客观地评价自己，既不放过缺点，也要肯定优点，正确地评价自己.自己批评应该掌握一个尺度，否则一味的自责，产生自卑心理。另外，学会自我批评会开阔一个人的心胸。
批评是“人生中不可或缺的垫脚石”，是“人生中最重要的自我思想的提高”。我们每个人都必须学会自我批评。我们必须端正自己的态度，并致力于改正。在自我批评中，我们能够不断发现自己的缺点，不断改正，不断进步，从而达到一个高的思想水平，自身也得到进化。我想这是一个人取得成功的必备条件。
Self-criticism In our daily life, it always exists someone who would like to criticize others but not accept criticism at all from others, and they never have a self-criticism.Actually, self-criticism can give you many benefits: Help, understanding, good habit and friendship.There’s a manager in my work, who made his team tired because of his mistake.He made a self-criticism about his shortage on his meeting, to get understanding ofus.He said: “I’m good at technology but lack of management.” We felt that the manager was honest and creditable, and then try our best to support the sincere manager.Making a self-criticism in public will let others know you are a great man, instead of losing your face.
There are two important functions: 1, you can find the nature of yourself.You can improve it by introspection; 2, Troubles can be solved in time.Everything will be fine.You would like to ask: How to make self-criticism? A good question! There’re four points.I name it “RISE”:1,Replacement thinking.Just find disadvantages of yourself instead of others, focus on how to get rid of them and improve your characters.2, Dointrospectionone time every day before you go to bed.You can find something what you can do better next time; 3, Get some good suggestions from your intimates, colleagues and clamates.Yesterday afternoon I got a calling of supplies colleague.She said I’m sorry.I’m always late to join your meeting.I reply her: It doesn’t matter! Your office is the furthest.Just come to my office 5min in advance and you’ll be there on time.At last, she didn’t mi the meeting.Do you know why? It is because the meeting room is beside my office.4, Evaluate yourself objectively.Find your strengths and weaknees at the same time.Do not just blame yourself all the time, otherwise you will lose yourself and live in unhappine for a long time.
Self-criticism is a neceary stepping-stone in your life.It also is the most important way to improve ourselves.We should learn how to self-criticize.We should make a positive attitude and devote ourselves to get rid of the bad.Remember: R-I-S-E.Just try, don’t be shame, and you will make it!
Self-criticism Good evening, everyone.I’m Frank.My topic is self-criticism.
In our daily life, it always exists someone who would like to criticize others but reject criticism from others, and he/she never has a self-criticism.Actually, self-criticism can give you many benefits: Help, understanding, good habit and friendship.There’s a manager in my work, who made his team tired because of his mistake.He made a self-criticism about his shortage on his meeting, to get understanding of us.He said directly,“I’m sorry, I’m good at technology but lack of management.” We felt that the manager was honest and creditable, and then tried our best to support the sincere manager.Making a self-criticism in public will let others know you are a great man, instead of losing your face.
You would like to ask: How to make self-criticism? A good question! There’re four points.I name it “RISE”: 1,To learn replacement thinking.Just find disadvantages of yourself instead of others, focus on how to get rid of them and improve your characters.2, To do introspectionone time every day before you go to bed.You can find something what you can do better next time; 3, Get some good suggestions from your intimates, colleagues and clamates.Yesterday afternoon I got a calling of a supplies colleague before my meeting.She said,“I’m sorry.I’m always late to join your meeting.” I reply her,“It doesn’t matter! Your office is the furthest.Just come to my office 5min in advance and you’ll be there on time.” At last, she didn’t mi the meeting.Do you know why? It is because the meeting room is beside my office.4, Evaluate yourself objectively.Find your strengths and weaknees at the same time.Do not just blame yourself all the time, otherwise you will lose yourself and live in unhappine for a long time.
Self-criticism is a neceary stepping-stone in your life.It also is the most important way to improve ourselves.We should learn how to self-criticize.We should make a positive attitude and devote ourselves to get rid of the bad.Remember: R-I-S-E.Just try, don’t be shame, and you will make it!
